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By BRIDGET MEADE
Bedford Now
Four-year-old Abigail Berry is a walking
miracle.
And the fact that she's walking at all is
something doctors can't explain.
"She was never supposed to last the
pregnancy," said her mother, Angela Berry, of Temperance. "Every
organ in her body is damaged."
Abigail is believed to have cardio-facio-cutaneous
syndrome (CFC), a rare genetic disease caused by mutations in
the genes. A few of her ailments include impaired hearing,
abnormal spinal curvature, defective teeth, lung disease, holes
in her heart and lack of hair on her skin.
In the past year, Abigail has made strides
that even her family never thought they'd see.
The family used to use sign language to
communicate with Abigail and had a special wheelchair they would
use to get her around. But today, she's walking and has begun to
talk.
Because Abigail is developmentally delayed,
Mrs. Berry said that the 4-year-old functions as a normal
2-year-old.
"She's going through the terrible twos,"
Mrs. Berry said while trying to keep Abigail out of her purse.
"She's a little princess, a girly girl,"
Mrs. Berry said. "She always wants to put makeup on."
Abigail also has a passion for music, and
she loves to sing. Her mother described her as strong-willed.
"She's very rambunctious," Mrs. Berry said.
"She's just a fighter."
Abigail has four siblings who range in age
from 6 to 16. Because the family is constantly traveling to
hospitals, Mrs. Berry home schools her children.
One of the hardest things for the mother was
admitting to herself that her family's life would never be
normal.
"The kids have grown up with feeding tubes
and IV poles," she said. "Life is very unpredictable for us.
Each day I don't know where it could be ending."
Over the years, she has learned to keep her
car stocked with things such as laundry detergent, toys,
overnight bags, quarters for vending machines, water and changes
of clothes.
"I've been stuck too many times for a week
in the hospital," she said.
Although Abigail is covered by three
health-insurance policies, Mrs. Berry said that much of her
money goes for things insurance doesn't cover, such as food, gas
and parking when Abigail has to go to the hospital.
"I'm in debt millions," she said.
But Mrs. Berry believes that Abigail has
enhanced her family's life.
"When people say to me, 'I'm so sorry,' I
say don't be sorry," she said. "We have more things other people
will never experience. The kids have just grown up knowing how
precious life is."
The family has had the opportunity to meet
professional athletes and other celebrities when Abigail has
been in hospitals, and they will take a trip to Disneyland in
March, sponsored by Make-A-Wish Foundation.
"We have an exciting life," Mrs. Berry said.
"I just had to realize that there is no routine for our family."
Mrs. Berry is always with Abigail, refusing
to leave her side when she's in critical condition.
"When she's too weak to fight, I fight for
her," she said.
On top of taking care of Abigail, Mrs. Berry
is going through a divorce. The mother said that she finds the
strength to keep going and help Abigail from several sources.
"First and foremost, I have my faith in
God," she said. "We're very strong Christians, and I always say
she's a testimony that nothing's too big for God."
She also looks to her parents and children,
her church family at Bedford Christian Community Church, and to
supporters throughout the Bedford community.
This summer, Mrs. Berry hopes to take
Abigail to an international CFC conference in Florida to meet
with doctors from around the world.
To help pay for traveling expenses,
Bedford-based GERT Ministries (God's Emergency Response Team)
and Bedford Christian Community Church will host a benefit
concert for Abigail on April 27 at the church. Unshaken, a
Toledo-based Christian group, will play the concert.
Mrs. Berry originally contacted GERT
Ministries founder Margaret Raker to see if she could volunteer
in the ministry.
"The community has been so amazing to us,"
Mrs. Berry said. "GERT ministries is all about helping people,
and I want to be able to give back."
She enjoys sharing Abigail's story, and if
the little girl gets well enough, she hopes to travel and use
the story to inspire others.
"Abigail has touched so many lives," Mrs.
Berry said. "Wherever we go, people are intrigued. Whenever
someone asks about her, I tell her story."
Does the mother ever wish she could change
things?
"Abigail does suffer a lot of pain, and that
hurts as a mom to watch your child suffer," she said. "It's a
road I would have never chosen, but I would never turn it back.
I feel completely blessed that God chose me to be her mother."
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